So even if you're not their exact same type, you are their type-which means you are in their league, THINMAN. Muscle dudes who get off on having their muscles worshiped respond to your messages and they hook up with you and plenty of them are open to dating you. (If you do wind up dating someone who isn't stacked, don't hide your kink from him-hell, you could wind up stumbling over a lovely, non-stacked guy who shares your kink, THINMAN, and the two of you can worship muscle guys as a team.)Īnd with all that said, THINMAN, and, um, just having just reread your letter, it doesn't sound like you're having any trouble attracting the kind of guys you're into. If you can't, well, change the preference settings on your Grindr and Scruff back to stacked. If you can, great: you have more potential partners to choose from. (Some people don't have a choice-someone with a centaur fetish is going to have to settle for non-centaur.) So you might want to change the preference settings on your Grindr and Scruff accounts and experiment with a few guys who aren't stacked-just to see if you can click with guys who don't live at the gym. That said, THINMAN, many people get with/fall in love with/build lives with partners who aren't their physical ideals.
